Tuesday, January 31, 2023

A California Reunion


"Remembrance is a form of Meeting"

- Kahil Gibran

"We are not Human Beings with a spiritual experience, but 

spiritual beings with a human experience"

- Pierre Teilhard Chardin


The Inspiration :

(Over 100 family members and friends gathered in Northern California's 

wine country to honor, remember and celebrate the life of the pilgrim's

sister's husband who had recently passed to the other side.)


A venerated teacher iterated , it is said that a Buddhist story

explains the probability of our incarnation as a human being on

this earth at this time and place is something like one life

preserver being tossed randomly into the ocean. There is one

turtle in the great expanse of the global ocean swimming somewhere 

underneath the water. The probability that we come into this world 

is the same as this one particular turtle sticking its head out

of the water...and in that specific moment its head peaks through 

the hole in that one random life preserver in just one try. Some social

scientist calculated that the odds of any one being becoming a 

real thing ( real life) is 1 in 400 million.

The patient pilgrim pondered,"If all creation is not a miracle

I don't know what is. This vessel may end its earthly journey but

the essence of the spirit in everything is not finished as a new 

journey begins."


The Writing:

(A personal reflection inspired by this post's theme)


A California Reunion

What is that flame,. that light

That Mystical source that draws searching souls,

Abandoning their daily passage to gather,

Reuniting in compassion and empathy?

How is it that in one fleeting urgent moment

The baggage of their journey

Is left behind with no regrets or hard feelings?

How strong is that desire for healing

The broken hearts of fellow travelers?

The pilgrim and two offspring converged

In the land of Jacks Dharma Bums' ghosts,

California stars, joining

The great pilgrimage to be where

Mindfulness is the practice of

Redemption and gratitude becoming

The "Holy Communion."

Rivers of tears flow like sacramental wine.

The unwavering torrential rains 

Came to a hard stop without notice,

Giving rebirth to a divine virgin blue sky

Making way for the great gleam.

Witness the true Beautiful Day.

The Tower of Song of the mask free sojourners'

Overflowing hearts sang out

As one unified voice of a singular solemn

Angelic choir filling the sanctuary

Serenely settled on the secret banks 

Of the Russian River, one or two puffs

South of the Emerald Triangle

Guarded by the glorious green mountainous grandeur.

Rhythms of the Chicago Blues reverberate

From within this chapel of untethered celebration

With the same DNA heard in the most holy arias.

Higher and Higher, cowboy lamentations,

Palomas and fries nourish 

The thirsty and hungry hearted congregation.

It is on the sacred ground , leaving behind the world,

Where the one sublime transformational moment

Of the authentic consecrating unconditional love

Washes down every aspect of the universe,

Leaving all to kneel in the deepest chamber

Of their hearts with humility to the light.

- JF Sobecki


The Poems:

( Poetry Reflections on the inspiration)


Where Many Rivers Meet

All the water below came from above

All the clouds living in the mountains

gave it to the rivers

who gave it to the sea, which is their dying.


And so I float on the cloud become water

central sea surrounded by white mountains,

the water salt, once fresh

cloud fall and steam , tree root and tide bank

leading to the river' mouths

and the mouth of the rivers sing to the sea,

the stories buried in the mountains

give out to the sea

and the sea remembers

and sings back 

from the depths

where nothing is forgotten.

- David Whyte


The Holy Longing - Goethe ( From the Favorite Poem Project)

https://youtu.be/8YWoOj5mJMo

Song of Myself - W. Whitman ( From the Favorite Poem Project)
https://youtu.be/hPLHVQpm1JA

For The Children - Gary Snyder



The Music:
(Musical reflections on the inspiration)

Transcendental Reunion - Mary Chapin Carpenter
https://youtu.be/1GUFJquA6bc

Heavenly Father - Bon Iver
https://youtu.be/vAoADCSpD-8

Live Forever - Drew Holcombe
https://youtu.be/ntbNQk2Tk7Q

Wash Me Down - Jim Cuddy
https://youtu.be/V6KxemuVYMU

Windfall - Son Volt
https://youtu.be/f1XrTzVzbJY

California Stars - Wilco


Tower of Song - Leonard Cohen (w U2)
https://youtu.be/OpLBtWG3JR4

No Hard Feelings - The Avett Brothers
https://youtu.be/aaU2HvRhCPw

Seasons of Love - Rent
https://youtu.be/UvyHuse6buY


Coda:

A Time to Say Goodbye - Andrea Bocelli & Sarah Brightman
https://youtu.be/4L_yCwFD6Jo


Remembering:

R.I.P. and Music,Skip !
                                                             















Marybeth Lifting or Spirits Higher

https://youtu.be/k9aDOGoPvW8

Tbird and a Redhead - Jimmy Smith Band ( Skip on Harp)

https://youtu.be/LY2BP6IoRwg



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A California Reunion


















"We are not human beings having a spiritual experience

but spiritual beings having a human experience."

- Pierre Teilhard Chardin

The Inspiration _______________

(Over 100 family members and friends gathered  in Northern California's 

wine country to honor and celebrate the life of the pilgrim's sister 's 

free spirited husband who had recently passed on to the other side.)


A venerated teacher proclaimed ,

 "It is is said that a Buddhist story that sites

 the probability of our incarnation as a human being on 

this earth at this time is something like one life preserver

 being thrown randomly into the ocean. There is this one 

turtle in all the oceans on earth swimming underneath the

 water somewhere .The probability that we come about in 

this world is the same as this one particular turtle sticking 

its head out of the water —-and at that specific moment its

 head peaks through the hole in that one random life preserver

 in just one try. Some social scientist promulgated that 

the odds of one becoming a real thing ( a life) is about 

1 in 400 million." 

The pilgrim responded "If all of creation is not a miracle

 I don’t know what is.

The vessel may end the earthly journey but the essence 

of the spirit is not finished as a new journey begins."

The Writing _____________________

( A personal reflection inspired by the post's theme)

A California Reunion

What is that flame , that light -

That mystically draws searching souls,

Abandoning their daily passage to gather,

Reuniting in compassion and empathy ?

How is it that in one fleeting urgent moment

The baggage of their journey

Is left behind with no regrets or hard feelings?

How strong is that desire for healing

The broken heart of a fellow traveler?

The pilgrim and two offspring converged

In the land of the ghosts of Jack's Dharma Bums ,

The California Stars , with

The great pilgrimage.

To be to where

Mindfulness is the living practice of

The redemption and gratitude ,, 

Is "the holy communion ."

This is where rivers of tears can

Flow like sacramental wine.

The days of the unwavering torrential rain

Came to a hard stop without notice,

Giving rebirth to divine virgin blue heavens 

Making room for the great gleam.

The Tower of Song of the mask-less sojourners

And companion hearts sang out

As one unified voice of a singular solemn 

Choral family filling the sanctuary 

On the secret sacred banks of the Russian River 

One puss south of the Golden Triangle

Guarded by the glorious green mountainous grandeur.

Sounds of the Chicago blues echoed 

From the celebratory chapel of love,

The same source heard in the most holy of arias.

Higher and higher, cowboy laments , 

Palomas and fries added to the nourishing

Of the hungry hearted congregation. 

It is in this sacred retreat of , leaving the world behind,

The one sublime transformational moment of the authentic

Consecration of unconditional love washing down every 

Aspect of the universe , 

All kneeling in the deepest chamber of their hearts

In humility to the light.

         - JF Sobecki 

The Poems ______________________

( Poetry reflections on the inspiration)

Where Many Rivers Meet -

All the water below me came from above
All the clouds living in the mountains
gave it to the rivers
who gave it to the sea, which is their dying.

And so I float on cloud become water,
central sea surrounded by white mountains,
the water salt, once fresh,
cloud fall and steam , tree root and tide bank
leading to the river' mouths
and the mouths of the rivers sing into the sea,
the stories buried in the mountains
give out to the sea
and the sea remembers
and sings back
from the depths
where nothing is forgotten.

 - David Whyte

The Holy Longing - Goethe ( From the Favorite Poem Project)

https://youtu.be/8YWoOj5mJMo


Song of Myself - Walt Whitman ( From The Favorite Poem Project)

https://youtu.be/hPLHVQpm1JA

For The Children - Gary Snyder

https://youtu.be/UXY5NTaL_48


The Music _____________________

(Reflections on the inspiration)            

Transcendental Reunion - Mary Chapin Carpenter

Heavenly Father - Bon Iver

Live Forever - Drew Holcombe

Windfall - Son Volt
https://youtu.be/f1XrTzVzbJY

California Stars - Wilco

Tower of Song - U2 with Leonard Cohen
https://youtu.be/OpLBtWG3JR4

No Hard Feelings - The Avett Brothers
https://youtu.be/aaU2HvRhCPw
Jim Cuddy,
Wash Me Down - Jim Buddy
https://youtu.be/V6KxemuVYMU

Setons of Love - Rent
https://youtu.be/UvyHuse6buYAndre Bocelli, Hopland, California

Coda_____________________________

A Time to Say Goodbye - Andrea Bocelli/Sarah Brightman


Remembering__________________
R.I. P. Skip

























Higher and Higher - Marybeth at Skip's Memorial Celebratio

https://youtu.be/yF_Ap_vOSuM

Tbird and The RedHead - Jimmy Smith Band ( Featuring Skip on harp)
https://youtu.be/LY2BP6IoRwg


amdg















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Saturday, December 31, 2022

The Art of Being and No Intention


 




"One life but we're not the same

we got to carry each other, carry each other.."

- U2






"I should be content

to look at a mountain

for what it is

and not as a comment on my life."

- David Ignatow


"We plan, God laughs" - Yiddish Proverb


A New Year's Plea


Lord, let me stand in the thick of the fight

Let me bear what I must without Whining

Grant me the wisdom to do what is right

Though a thousand false beacons are shining.


Let me be true as the steel of a blade

Make me bigger than skilled or clever:

Teach me to cling to my best, unafraid.

And, harken the false gospels, never.


Let me be brave when the burden is great,

Faithful when wounded by sorrow,

Teach me, when troubled. with patience to wait

The better and bright tomorrow.


Spare me from hatred and envy and shame,

Open my eyes to life's beauty:

Let not the glitter of fortune or fame

Blind me to what is my duty.


Let me be true to myself to the end,

Let me stand to my task without whining,

Let me be right as a man , as a friend,

Though a thousand false beacons are shining.

   - Edgar A. Guest ( found in a collection of his poetry printed 1925)

___________________


The Art of Being and No Intention


An original member of the band recalled how the pilgrim

Was thought of as the student  with "Aptitude with Attitude."

The "undeclared" pilgrim sojourner believed he was

That cork "floating over the raging sea,"

No course charted or a grand vision of Ulysses.

Often distracted, the pilgrim wandered this way and that,

Not considering how the wind and mystical currents -

Were taking him to be precisely where he needed to be.

On the inhale present to mystery , and

On the exhale the holy longing could fade as

Disorientation and discouraging doubt disrupt the passage.

Almost 28,000 rotations of the earth completed

Since that eternal spark launched his soul's innocent vessel,

From the womb fists ready for the fight, 

You know, just in case,

From the first light injustice and ignorance 

Appeared flourishing in all aspects of the world .

"Where was that unconditional love? 

What happened to the magnificent

Promise of perpetual sanctifying peace?'

No control while relying on faith 

Seemed at times to stop everything within and around him.

Then that secret sacred voice, without speaking ,

Simply and unabashedly penetrated his spirit.

"Let go and just be. You are the author of your own story

Remember 'The treasure is where your heart is' .

No matter where you are

Or what you do or say

It is how you love and serve others that matters."

 - JF Sobecki

____________________-


"Wherever you go there you are."

- Jon Kabat-Zinn

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A few musical pieces....       

The Boxer - Kraus, Colvin and Douglas (P. Simon)

(Thanks to Lou P. for the inspiration )


There is a Mountain - Donavan
https://youtu.be/zil3-EDye1g

                          
Nights in White Satin/Late Lament - Moody Blues

One of These Days - N.Young

One - U2

One Fine Day - D. Byrne*

Simple Gifts - Yo-Yo Ma/Allison Kraus
https://youtu.be/baNueuDCue0

'Til I Die - Beach Boys ( B. Wilson)
https://youtu.be/87D8-rXTT0M


Night Riders Lament - JJ Walker
( Just because - for all those who follow their own spirit)
https://youtu.be/3wOrfKtAK2Y



Ulysses(ending) - Read by Dame Helen Mirren (Alfred Lord Tennyson)


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Wednesday, November 30, 2022

The Advent Gift




Charlie Brown asked Lucy why she was so happy. Lucy explained how it was "Christmas" and explained further that this was the time of the year to " spread joy, caring, compassion. giving , peace and love."
Charlie Brown wondered to Lucy "What do we do these things at "Christmastime" and why can't we do these things and be that way all year round?" Lucy yelled at Charlie Brown. " What are you some type of religious fanatic?"






 



--------------

The Advent Gift

So he sat in the stillness with silence,
Letting go the contemplation, 
Surrendering to the sanctifying serenity..
Gazing through the ancient windows
Blurring all that magnificent gift of nature
Wondering if there would be one leaf
That would refuse to fall.
The noise of the world slowly 
Fading into nothingness.
His earthly vessel lost 
As the consciousness welcomed the light.
The soul slowly slipping 
Into the mystical cosmic void.
No conjuring analysis of the now,
Floating and free .
The eternal spark rekindled
Growing the flame warming the soul.
A secret voice of an unknown source
Seemed to speak softly to his spirit
"Who will love if you don't? 
Are you the selfless creation
Unafraid to to serve those pilgrims
Struggling to live in blessedness?
Are others aware of the abundant
Unconditional  perpetual grace?
What is your contribution to the solace?
How does your authenticity shine 
The light that has been gifted so
Every aspect of creation
Waking all to the great illumination,
The Divine DNA residing in every thing?
My gift to you :
Is that you are to give freely
All times - all ways.
All life is sacrament. All time is sacred.
All days are holy-days."

Eyes and  mind clear, heart and spirit filled.
He thought "Maybe this is heaven"
Advent complete.

- JF Sobecki
--------------------------------
Some different music for the Holidays

You Got The Love - The Retrosettes Sister Band
https://youtu.be/fMEgZiCTW0M

When Love Comes to Town( w BB King)- U2
https://youtu.be/_TGU35i8czo

Long,Long, Long - Beatles( G. Harrison)
https://youtu.be/e9vUCdfwlgw

Peace Train - C. Stevens - Playing for Change
https://youtu.be/0QpjR6-Uuks

Do They Know its Christmastime- Band Aid
https://youtu.be/j3fSknbR7Y4

Field Of Dreams - "Maybe This is Heaven" (watch til the end)
* Warning: Men grab that box of tissues
https://youtu.be/lXjz-M_6eN8


Scrooge ( A Christmas Carol - Full Movie)

https://youtu.be/zvEMd7WLoew


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Monday, October 31, 2022

This Little Light

 






"At sea I learned how little a person
needs, not how much."

      - Robin Graham









------

This Little Light

Some say she is a seeker sailing sanctified seas for serenity.
Some say she savors the searching.
The waves are all separate, new , coming and going
And yet they are of that one great unknown sea.
The wind of that unknown mystical source
Sometimes fills the sails and sometimes the canvas 
Stands in stillness and the vessel drifts almost aimless.
No sextant , charts or navigator needed.
A new habit may help, but a new mask will not.
The heart knows where the treasure is and 
That eternal spark will light the way.
The greek chorus of bishops of the voyage proclaim ,
"The ocean is our cathedral and sailing our sacrament.
It is how you sail that really matters in the end . 
Trust that consecrating wind that lifts the migrating paracletes . "
Sacred sojourners don't sail for accolades or rewards,
It isn't about attachments , owning any thing
Or crossing some arbitrary finish line.
Holes need to be filled, lost spirits 
And bodies to be found, fed and sheltered.
Echoes of a humble mother recalls
That everyone , every thing needs love.
Seekers bow to the rising sun and kneel 
As the gleam fades over the horizon.
Constant compassion, selflessness,  gratitude
And maybe a little light, a poem and a song-
The only real provisions needed for the passage  .

               - JF Sobecki

--------------------
Some Eternal Spark - Glossary
https://youtu.be/HNC48nWREXg

Nothing But a Burning Light - B. Cockburn
https://youtu.be/xUqFP3kGMZg

Tomorrow Never Knows- Beatles
https://youtu.be/O58ouPdjgo0

Gotta Be - Desiree'
https://youtu.be/pO40TcKa_5U

Still Haven't Found - U2

Any Road - G. Harrison

This Little Light - Odetta


What the World need Now - J. DeShannon
https://youtu.be/YUaxVQPohlU





------------------------------

  The Journey

Above there mountains
The geese turn into 
the light again

Painting their
black silhouettes
on an open sky

Sometimes everything
has to be 
inscribed across 
the heavens

so you can find the one line
already written
inside you.

Sometimes it takes
a great sky
to find that

first, bright
and indescribable
wedge of freedom
in your own heart.

Sometimes with 
the bones of the black
sticks left when the fire
has gone out

someone has written
something new
in the ashes of your life.
You are not leaving.
Even as the light fades quickly now
you are arriving.

- David Whyte




Remembering Skip - R.I.P. 

His "Girls"




                                                                                       



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Saturday, October 1, 2022

Category 4: Sail On Through The Storm


 


"Red Sky at night sailor's delight

Red Sky at morning,

Sailors take warning"

- Old Sailor Saying




"'Twas in another lifetime, one of toil and blood

When blackness was a virtue the road was full of mud

I came in from the wilderness, a creature void of form

Come in, she said

I'll give ya shelter from the storm"

  - Shelter from The Storm , Bob Dylan


"Seen loved ones born

Seen loved ones dying

Sail On Through the storm

Rocked with laughter

I shook with crying

Taking it all back home."

 - Sail On, M. Black



 

                                                                          


-----------

Category 4: Sail On Through The Storm


So, the bowman queried,

"What about the storm?"

The old salt navigator retorted, " Storms come and go.

Sometimes we experience the consequence 

Of decisions regardless of the thoroughness

Of the preparatory analysis. 

Sometimes rationalizations are conjured

By wisemen and jokers alike

To justify the chosen course."

Yet, not deciding is a decision.

Sail On! Sail On Through the storm!

Taking it all back home.

Experienced sojourners know the secret

Of how things happen time and again.

The troubadour sings "Everything dies,

Baby that's a fact. But maybe everything that dies

Some days come back."

Sometimes we are completely surprised.

Sometimes we should know better.

Sometimes we are as immortal adolescents,

Moving forward regardless of warning signs 

And the wise counsel of Obe Wans.

Hurricanes wash away complete beaches and homes but

They cannot wash away the memories.


A bride and a groom vow with conviction to abide

Filling each other with hopefulness and faith in the future.

"Come in , she says

I'll give you shelter from the storm."

What fills their hearts overrides the concern

Of the probable storms lying in wait.

"In sickness and health" they proclaim.

Just up the coast outside of Sanibel and Captiva.

They would sing "Ooh La La La La La"

Witnessing magical sunsets waiting

On the promise of a Green Flash.

Where a son of the rising sun declared

"This must be paradise."

All things change. All things must pass.

That holy essence nurtures all,

The hungry spirits who gather to celebrate 

New unions, new journeys

And all wayward pilgrims 

Lift up their palms in supplications and trust.

The officiant whispers,

" Good Luck, Bad Luck, who knows?

Just sail on through the storm."


There is no doubt

The Odyssey does not go on ad infinitum.

The potential for tragedy always lies in wait,

The finish line may be a distant wave or two away

As sailors can be knocked down mid tack

With a gentle following wind.

Earthen vessels are not made to be tethered

To some dock in a safe harbor .

Their purpose is to sail on, making passage 

On the unknown sea,

Disembarking following a charted course.

Diligent sailors hope and work for the best

While being mindful of the present.

Survivors of storms are reminded of the sacred duty  

To stand at the ready to serve and help heal 

Those vessels that have been broken,

Constantly searching for and rescuing those stranded,

Those in need...the hopeless and the helpless

Bringing them into the light.

Sail On..."Sail on to where you truly belong

Don't waste time asking where

The time you've spent is gone."

Just Sail On.... through the storm.


                - JF Sobecki


____________

Help those who cannot help themselves. 

Helping victims of Hurricanes Fiona and Ian

and storms of all types. and forms. 


For the memories, the friends and family on the Gulf Coast.


                       World Central Kitchen


                               Click on Link    wrk.org

American Red Cross











click link - redress.org


Sanibel - Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young

( Sanibel, Captiva and other Islands in the Gulf

have been decimated)

https://youtu.be/nPa3xX1j1Ww

Atlantic City - The Band ( B. Springsteen)

https://youtu.be/QFxXTO1t5yo


Shelter From The Storm -B. Dylan


All Things Must Pass - G. Harrison

https://youtu.be/QWV4pFV5nX4

Sail On Sailor - Beach Boys
https://youtu.be/Zx6dgEgbMNU

Sail On - Mary Black
https://youtu.be/zv113_HGT60

I can See Clearly Now - J. Nash

https://youtu.be/g_rB4v75jqU

Fiona - Fantastic Cat

https://youtu.be/9IsVAUYAk_8

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( Thanks to D. Gaugin, B. Dylan, B. Springsteen, T. Merton and friends and family for the inspiration)