Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts

Thursday, November 30, 2023

Questions :An Advent Contemplation


"I will honor Christmas in my heart

and try to keep it all year."

- Charles Dickens


"Mankind was my business. The 

common welfare was my business;

charity, mercy , forbearance,

benevolence, were all my business. 

The dealings of my trade but a drop

of water in the comprehensive ocean

of my business!"

- Marley's Ghost to Scrooge - Dickens



Charlie Brown asked Lucy why she was so happy. Lucy explainers

 how it was "Christmas" and how it was the time of year to 

"Spread joy , caring ,compassion, giving and love , and working 

for peace ." Charlie Brown  wondered out-loud ,"Why do we do 

these things at Christmastime and why 

can't we do these things all year round?" Lucy yells at 

Charlie Brown "What are you some type of religious fanatic?!"


The Inspiration :

In one of the few credible local newspapers remaining the pages in a recent edition were filled with ads as to the best sales for the best products that one really "needs" to get as presents for their loved ones during this holiday season . In between those color-filled pages were pictures and stories of the horrors of war and violence , famine in countries that seem to be from some faraway planet, debates and quotes from public figures who proclaim that they represent the truth about spiritual matters and why their religion is the only correct path, and how elected officials threaten physical harm to others who don't agree with them and on and on. 

Without warning right in the middle of the OpEd pages is an old picture of President Jimmy Carter and his wife Rosalynn Carter, who had just passed , sweating as they worked at building a home for the homeless their post political office years . The caption on the picture read " Faith in Action."

On the same day as reading a digital world news report there was a short video vignette of an aging great grandfather holding his new born great grand child as the great grandfather wept whispering to the infant, "I am so sorry that I didn't do more to leave you a better world to live in. We really blew it ." 

This pilgrim author wondered , " Have I tried enough ?"
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The Writing:

Questions : An Advent Contemplation

Oliver wondered while Cockburn conjured 

Purpose or rationalization ,

Commandments or subtle suggestions ?

Sometimes confused sheep wander as

A few somehow are lost in the most verdant of valleys

Gifted to every creature hoping for nourishment and serenity.

How is it that some of the most enlightened 

Of the most erudite of the Mensa membership

Not only get off course leading seekers 

Away from the truth as the answer that has

Been burning brightly within all ways?

Have the pieces of the cosmic  puzzle confused

Wandering sentient spirits seeking significance 

Of their place in this mandala ?

Hasn't all of Mother Nature ,the essence of the divine,

That eternal magnificent spark,

Graced every aspect of creation in all ways?

Is not this experience and space

Sanctifying all with the ever-present answers to

The great questions ? 

-  JF Sobecki

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The Poems and Such:

"Poetry is a gateway into intuitive consciousness. It knocks on the doors

 of the heart and the heart opens" 

 - Mirabai Starr

"Poetry is an Act of Peace . Peace goes into the making of a poet

as flour goes into the making of bread."

- Pablo Neruda

Some Questions You Might Ask

Is the soul solid, like iron? 

Or is it tender and breakable, like 

the wings of a moth in the beak of the owl? 

Who has it, and who doesn’t? 

I keep looking around me. 

The face of the moose is as sad 

as the face of Jesus. 

The swan opens her white wings slowly. 

In the fall, the black bear carries leaves into the darkness. 

One question leads to another. 

Does it have a shape? Like an iceberg? 

Like the eye of a hummingbird? 

Does it have one lung, like the snake and the scallop? 

Why should I have it, and not the anteater 

who loves her children? 

Why should I have it, and not the camel? 

Come to think of it, what about the maple trees? 

What about the blue iris? 

What about all the little stones, sitting alone in the moonlight? 

What about roses, and lemons, and their shining leaves? 

What about the grass?

- Mary Oliver

 God's Grandeur - GM Hopkins ( Read by Stanley Kunitz) 

https://youtu.be/vpEaCp8iiSc?si=u7YUv8gsN6Y2tond

"Into this world, this demented inn, in which there is no room for him
at all, Christ has come uninvited."
- Thomas Merton
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The Music:

Running To Stand Still - Bono (U2)

https://youtu.be/8EAuep7vUdQ?si=DmW0oIUrA45iIxt6

Getting Ready for Christmas Day - Paul Simon

https://youtu.be/5Q_y4IqeQe8?si=-vClhAIG1HEr-aLi

I Believe in Father Christmas - G. Lake
https://youtu.be/U6-PAKOt7sM?si=WN98L1Kuqhu8u6P2

Do They Know it's Christmas - Band Aid
https://youtu.be/j3fSknbR7Y4?si=KBREFAwqEehkRW1D

Questions - Moody Blues
https://youtu.be/NP9iOqdxS8c?si=dLWlvQRRa9dq7svh

Nothing But a Burning Light - Bruce Cockburn

https://youtu.be/FrhECC6msak?si=hMZXZG8TCI6Vli-o


Videos for Meditation For Readers:

What are we meant to be?
What is our responsibility to our loved ones and the world?

To be or not to be - Alternatives (Shakespeare)

Scrooge - The Full Movie 1951
https://youtu.be/oPDNKbdW9P0?si=KQUfHaEfYGDi964V

CODA: Something more to consider

As I come of Age - S. Stills

How do we share the spirit of peace, love, compassion and mercy?

Have a Blessed and Peaceful Holiday Season.


Two  not-for-profits that keep the spirit alive year round.

Family Promise - https://familypromise.org

World Central Kitchen - https://wck.org
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"Everything that we preach is what we need to hear."
         - Bono

"One day I will find the right words , and they will be simple."
- Jack Kerouac

"The most important thing is not why we write but how we write.
Write dangerously , Beckett.." 
- James Joyce ( From the new biopic on S. Beckett " Dance First.")

For my girls and their families.... 

AMDG

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Wednesday, November 30, 2022

The Advent Gift




Charlie Brown asked Lucy why she was so happy. Lucy explained how it was "Christmas" and explained further that this was the time of the year to " spread joy, caring, compassion. giving , peace and love."
Charlie Brown wondered to Lucy "What do we do these things at "Christmastime" and why can't we do these things and be that way all year round?" Lucy yelled at Charlie Brown. " What are you some type of religious fanatic?"






 



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The Advent Gift

So he sat in the stillness with silence,
Letting go the contemplation, 
Surrendering to the sanctifying serenity..
Gazing through the ancient windows
Blurring all that magnificent gift of nature
Wondering if there would be one leaf
That would refuse to fall.
The noise of the world slowly 
Fading into nothingness.
His earthly vessel lost 
As the consciousness welcomed the light.
The soul slowly slipping 
Into the mystical cosmic void.
No conjuring analysis of the now,
Floating and free .
The eternal spark rekindled
Growing the flame warming the soul.
A secret voice of an unknown source
Seemed to speak softly to his spirit
"Who will love if you don't? 
Are you the selfless creation
Unafraid to to serve those pilgrims
Struggling to live in blessedness?
Are others aware of the abundant
Unconditional  perpetual grace?
What is your contribution to the solace?
How does your authenticity shine 
The light that has been gifted so
Every aspect of creation
Waking all to the great illumination,
The Divine DNA residing in every thing?
My gift to you :
Is that you are to give freely
All times - all ways.
All life is sacrament. All time is sacred.
All days are holy-days."

Eyes and  mind clear, heart and spirit filled.
He thought "Maybe this is heaven"
Advent complete.

- JF Sobecki
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Some different music for the Holidays

You Got The Love - The Retrosettes Sister Band
https://youtu.be/fMEgZiCTW0M

When Love Comes to Town( w BB King)- U2
https://youtu.be/_TGU35i8czo

Long,Long, Long - Beatles( G. Harrison)
https://youtu.be/e9vUCdfwlgw

Peace Train - C. Stevens - Playing for Change
https://youtu.be/0QpjR6-Uuks

Do They Know its Christmastime- Band Aid
https://youtu.be/j3fSknbR7Y4

Field Of Dreams - "Maybe This is Heaven" (watch til the end)
* Warning: Men grab that box of tissues
https://youtu.be/lXjz-M_6eN8


Scrooge ( A Christmas Carol - Full Movie)

https://youtu.be/zvEMd7WLoew


amdg

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Monday, November 30, 2020

Adventus Lauds



" ...Now darkness only stays the nighttime

In the morning it will fade away.

Daylight is good at arriving at the right time 

It's not always going to be this gray..."

- All Things Must Pass , G. Harrison




Merton Christmas Prayer

 Into this world, this demented inn

in which there is no room for him at all,


But because he cannot be at home in it,

because he is out of place in it

and yet he must be in it,

His place is with those who do not belong, 

who are rejected by power because

they are regarded as weak,

those who are discredited,

who are denied status of persons.

who are tortured, bombed and exterminated


with those for whom there is no room,

Christ is present in this world.

- Thomas Merton


The Holy Longing


Tell a wise person, or else keep silent

because the mass man will mock it right away.

I praise what is truly Alive.

What longs to be burned to death.


In the calm water of the love-nights,

where you were begotten, where you have begotten,

a strange feeling comes over you,

when you see the silent candle burning.


Now you are no longer caught in the obsession with darkness,

and a desire for higher love-making sweeps you upward.


Distance does not make you falter.

Now, in arriving in magic, flying.


and finally insane for the light,

you are the butterfly and you are gone.

And so long as you haven't experienced this: to die and so to grow,

you are a troubled guest on the dark earth.

- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, translated by Robert Bly


Let the Angels sing

"PEACE ON EARTH GOOD WILL TO MEN"




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 Adventus Lauds


So in this time of waiting;

Pandemic never ending, elections denied -

No lives seem to matter,

The pilgrim pondered,

"Are not all gifts blessings and

all blessings gifts and if this is not true

how does any of this matter?

Is not all creation a gift of unconditional love

to live in total love , peace and hope?"

The usual suspect's father once confided

"Blessed are the peacemakers as they 

shall see God first."

The sherpa quietly packed the bags

for the journey with a mantra

that he would only instruct

the novice pilgrims in the ways of peace.

Do you ever wonder from what seed was narcissism, greed and violence born?

Were we not to share everything for the common welfare

of all creation?

Is the creed such that sentient beings are gifted breath 

and life to only benefit themselves?

As so with every ending comes a new beginning.

The ashes of the recent passage

leads to the spark ever-present that we rekindle

deep within the mystery of our own souls

where the common DNA found in the great teacher

illuminates again with hope, light , peace, compassion , mercy and love.

- JF Sobecki

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Journey of the Magi - TS Eliot ( read by Hugh Laurie)

https://youtu.be/qyas4QpWM-E


Seasons Best Ad ( Message)

https://youtu.be/6PH88aAL7hU


Getting Ready - P. Simon

https://youtu.be/5Q_y4IqeQe8


The Cry of a Tiny Babe - B. Cockburn

https://youtu.be/YmZlYiMCvSc


Do They Know It's Christmas

https://youtu.be/bjQzJAKxTrE


The True Meaning of Christmas Charlie Brown

https://youtu.be/sOofCTbv96s


Live Peace- Teach Peace - Be Peace- Colman McCarthy

https://youtu.be/d6oc9nd_o7k


For RELIGIOUS FANATICS ONLY - Charlie Brown Story

Charlie Brown asked Lucy why she was so happy. Lucy explained how it was "Christmas" and explained further that this was the time of year to "spread joy, caring, compassion, giving, peace and love."

Charlie Brown wondered to Lucy "Why do we do these things at "Christmastime" and why can't we do these things and be that way all year round?"Lucy yelled at Charlie Brown , "What are you some type of religious fanatic?"

Now sit back relax and watch the full film version of"Scrooge" with Alistair Sim ( 1951)

"Business" cried the Ghost, wringing his hands again."Mankind was my business.The common welfare was my business: charity, mercy, forebearance and benevolence, were all my business.The dealings of my trade were but a drop of water in the comprehensive ocean of my business"

    - The Ghost of Jacob Marley, A Christmas Carole , C, Dickens


                
                                               https://youtu.be/cm4780aYfaw


Hope you are all safe and well.

Merry Peace-filled Christmas and Happy New Year Everyone!


amdg





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Sunday, December 1, 2019

Welcome Charlotte Ann - Born on November 18, 2019 to Lindsay and Joe Malone:A Christmas Post

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"Dear Child of God, you are loved with a love that nothing can shake, a love that loved you long before you were created, a love that will be there long after everything has disappeared.”
    —Desmond Tutu


“Like a stone on the surface of a still river
Driving the ripples on forever
Redemption rips through the surface of time
In the cry of a tiny babe”
     - Cry of a Tiny Babe, Bruce Cockburn





Dear Charlotte

They say the greatest gift one can receive or give is the gift of love.
It is no doubt then that your arrival to this world and presence is in truth a sacred event, a sacrament. You are the embodiment of love , the love between your mother and your father, the love of your sister as well as the love of your extended family. But most of all your life, as a life and creation, is a gift of God , as God is the act of love itself. Your family and the world is blessed by your presence…your beauty, your truth, your wonder, your delight, your trust, inquisitiveness and your unconditional love for those around you. It has been said “Fall in love , stay in love because that is everything .”

Everyone around you loved you before you arrived and if it is possible we all loved you even more the moment you were born.I believe that the best way to maintain and grow this love is to : be authentic and be the person you are meant to be( follow your heart); be honest , truthful and kind ; act and live in integrity; love everyone and everything; be selfless; remember those who are less fortunate than you ; always be grateful and humble ; there are good and bad people in this world - know and trust the good people in your life; when you hear good music dance your heart out; remember poetry and many songs are windows to the great secrets of the universe; when I felt alone or blue I would walk along a great beach or head for the pastoral beauty of a forest( I would know I am not alone)- Nature thrives and fills up the soul with the sacred ; don’t be afraid to be amazed as you will always amaze everyone; and, when in doubt pray… it works!

... and as John and Paul once wrote "the love you take is equal to the love you make."

Te viglio bene assai, bene assai.

Nonno
Xox

P.S. As I mentioned to your sister every time you hear a Beatles song …think of me because I am with you always.


Forever Young - Bob Dylan














https://youtu.be/Frj2CLGldC4


I hope you Dance - L. Womack

https://youtu.be/iN9bwC5UZUs


Remember Me - T. Rundgren

https://youtu.be/z4vJIhv67M4


And since you are a Christmas blessing -  here are a couple of my favorite Christmas songs for you.


Getting Ready For Christmas Day - P. Simon

Do they Know Its Christmas -


Cry of a Tiny Babe - B. Cockburn





amdg

The Fantastic Four! 






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Friday, November 30, 2018

Welcome Oliver

Welcome Oliver Rich - Born November 25, 2018 to Hal and Leigh Rich

“Like a stone on the surface of a still river
Driving the ripples on forever
Redemption rips through the surface of time
In the cry of a tiny babe”

     - Cry of a Tiny Babe, Bruce Cockburn

May God bless and keep you always
May your wishes all come true
May you always do for others
And let others do for you
May you build a ladder to the stars
And climb on every rung
May you stay
May you stay forever young

   - Forever Young  , Bob Dylan


"Dear Child of God, you are loved with a love that nothing can shake, a love that loved you long before you were created, a love that will be there long after everything has disappeared.”
    —Desmond Tutu

It's no mystery when you can see clearly
Vibrating at a higher frequency
Fill your purpose as you go about life daily
Understanding what it means to clearly see, yeah

Spirit will provide….
Let go and Let God, Spirit will provide

  • Spirit Will Provide , Van Morrison

Some say faith is a childish game
Play on, children ,like it’s Christmas Day
Sing me a song, sing me a melody
Sing out loud, you’re a symphony

I want you to live forever…

 - Live Forever , Drew Holcombe


Oliver,
,

Well, here you are. Welcome! Some say that children born at Christmastime get cheated. I believe there is a little extra special blessing when born around Christmas . Ask your Zia Lindsay and cousin Caroline about this. The moment our eyes connected I felt the overwhelming power of the most mystical unconditional love. I wondered if I was about to hear the great truth ,that secret of the universe , the message that all the mystics and saints have understood . A new born baby has come directly from the eternal spark, the source of all life, and being in your presence I was just humbled to behold such a living grace. You came into this world as result of love between and from your mother and father. When I see them see you, hear you, speak to you or hold you you I see and feel their love for you.

I worry about how fast human beings become so distracted, corrupted and detached from the all-encompassing pure love and peace so quickly when we enter this world. I worry about the world of the Herod’s of all origins and types and pray for the innocents, and their parents , they have taken before they even started out on the great journey back home. I worry about the ignorance, greed/self-centeredness and violence that tries to spit in the face of God and undo all the good. I worry about those who cannot help themselves and suffer needlessly. It is said 
“If a problem can be solved…why worry and if problem is unsolvable, worrying will not help.”
Worrying has not helped me much and worry really does not resolve anything does it? So, here are a few things I have learned along the way that you may want to think about :

  • We are born out of love and and are loved constantly more than we will ever know;
  • “Fall in love , stay in love because that is everything”
  • Our purpose is to be genuine , use the talents we have been given to share that love and reflect that natural perfect peace;
  • Follow your heart and listen to the great voice within and you will know what to do and what to be;
  • Be grateful and humble as you make your way through the calm seas and storms of this great passage;
  • Know and nurture the goodness in this world. Admire and help the “good “ people in this world ( You’ll know who they are.) Be one of those good people that others want to be around( They will find you and your parents are good models of this);
  • There are those who are less fortunate and need your help and care;
  • Nature teaches us a lot if you are present to it’s beauty ,peace and truth;
  • Everything is evidence of the sacred …if you don’t get stuck in thinking or worrying too much about it;
  • Music, poetry and art are channels of the truth ( don’t ever forget to dance your heart out);
  • Trust your intuition always….
  • Always be amazed by everything in this world and you will amaze everyone!

( Though your brother may annoy you at times…remember brothers do that and deep down he loves you more than your know. I have a brother too.)

Flourish all ways. 
Te voglio bene assai, bene assai.

Nonno

xox


Forever Young - Bob Dylan

https://youtu.be/Frj2CLGldC4

Spirit Will Provide - Van Morrison


Cry of a tiny babe - B. Cockburn

Murder in The City - Avett Brothers


Remember Me - T. Rundgren

amdg


“One day I will find the right words and they will be simple"
- Jack Kerouac

“The only truth is music”
- Jack Kerouac

















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